Easier said than done, right? Actually no…building confidence in yourself is really quite a simple task when you break it down. I don’t think it’s something we’re born with, but rather it’s something we learn and build over time. When I think about the times I’ve felt most confident, it’s when I’ve achieved something I set out to do. When I auditioned for Homemade Millionaire and ultimately became the winner. When I got my Pilates certification after six long months. When I graduated from college. When I became class President.
Think about the times when you felt most confident. I’m willing to bet those times were tied to something you accomplished—something you dreamed about and then finally did. Losing weight is a big confidence booster. But, why is that? It’s not the pounds a person sheds, but rather it’s the fact that that person set a goal and they achieved it. There is no better feeling. Nothing builds confidence and self-esteem better than successfully achieving a goal. No matter how big or small that goal is—it doesn’t have to be something monumental. It can be as simple as organizing your sock drawer. It’s a tedious task with no huge benefit on the backend…but boy it feels good when you tell yourself you’re going to do something, and then you actually do it. That commitment to follow through is everything.
Challenge yourself to set three goals today—even small goals. The point is to feel the shift in your confidence level as you achieve them. Give that gift to yourself! Self-confidence gives you the ability to carry out your daily tasks with energy and enthusiasm. With a few small achievements under your belt, they soon multiply and create a new confidence from deep within you.
If you want to raise confident children, teach them early how to set goals—and more importantly, how to achieve those goals once they’re set. The greatest gift you can give them and yourself is the gift of achievement. Because with achievement comes confidence. And with confidence, the world is your oyster!
Marcy, really enjoyed reading this article. Love this – “Challenge yourself to set three goals today—even small goals…” Brilliant tips!
I so agree that you must start your day with the right mindset!!!
Great article! Hubby and I are big on goals — we’ve achieved some pretty major ones in 33 years.
This is a really good article, Marcy. Setting small goals and actually achieving them will help anyone feel more confident. Great post!
Excellent insights! Self-esteem is huge when it comes to success and setting goals and then achieving them is the best path to a healthy level of self-esteem! Great article!
Wonderful tips!! It’s so very important to set goals and most importantly feel great when achieved!!:) A healthy self-esteem is essential to building up confidence…thanks so much for sharing:)
Great post! Building confidence is important because with confidence you will achieve success!
Great post! I totally agree.
I love the goal setting idea and you are SO right on about the self confidence and the importance of building that in our children.
I love this idea of setting three goals a day – I’m going to try that! Thanks!
This is the truth! I just wrote a list of things on my whiteboard, not so much to check them off but to remember what I need to do (there was so much). When I got to scratching them off my list I felt incredible! The tasks got done in no time (and they were time consuming tasks) and I had time to spare. Yes it does boost confidence!
It definitely works! So glad to hear this! Marcy
outstanding post! I worked very hard to raise my daughters this way and these methods work! They believe they can do anything they want and it shows!
I am so glad to hear that! It does work! Marcy
Great tips! I appreciate your advice on setting 3 small goals a day. It really does help with momentum and gives us confidence to tackle bigger goals. Thanks for sharing!
You are welcome! Thanks for your response! Marcy
Love these tips, Marcy! It’s great to set 3 small goals daily…doesn’t seem so overwhelming that way.
Yes Kim, It is really simple and not overwelming which makes it attainable and builds your confidence at the same time! Marcy
It’s amazing how powerful accomplishing goals can be isn’t it? Whether they’re big or small? Achievement really does lead to confidence!
Yes, I sooooo agree with you! Marcy
Anytime I see an article on confidence I think of childhood. I deeply beleive that is where confidence is instilled. If it is not, it can very well become a lifelong battle to create a confident lifestyle!
Your posts are always so uplifting Marcy, thanks. I completely agree with you on goals that seem a little meaningless (like the sock drawer!) I think the point is, if you can set and accomplish those goals, think how you can tackle a goal you’re really passionate about!